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Navigating Panic Attacks

Panic episodes are powerful sequences of fear and dread that can be immensely crippling and overwhelming. They can touch individuals of any age or background and are regularly linked with other psychological health issues like melancholy, PTSD, and fears. When an individual contends with a panic assault, their pulse rate rises, their breathing is unpredictable, and they may sense faintness, lightheaded, or torment in the chest. They may also encounter extreme emotions of terror, fear, and uneasiness. Panic attacks generally last between five and thirty minutes, and the person may ponder whether or not they would perish or lose command.

Causes of Panic Attacks

The origins of panic attacks remain largely a mystery, but they tend to happen as a result of a stimulus, such as an emotionally charged situation or a shock. It is assumed that the fight-or-flight response, stimulated by the adrenaline system, gives rise to the signs. Yet, there are particular stimulators that can evoke a panic attack.

1. Stress: Stress can trigger panic attacks, as your body and mind become overwhelmed with overwhelming thoughts, worries, and anxieties.

2. Genetics: Panic attacks can be inherited, with research showing some people are more prone to panic attacks due to their genetic makeup.

3. Traumatic experiences: Experiencing something jarring such as seeing a shocking occurrence or dealing with trauma, can activate a panic attack.

4. Hormones: Hormone imbalances, particularly those associated with perimenopause and menopause, can lead to changes in your mood and panic attacks.

5. Poor sleep: Insufficient or poor-quality sleep can significantly increase the risk of experiencing panic attacks.

6. Poor diet: Failing to consume an adequately nutritious meal can lead to a scarcity of essential vitamins and minerals that can provoke anxiety and phobic episodes.

Practical Strategies for Coping with Panic Attacks

Practical strategies for coping with panic attacks can help individuals feel more in control of their anxiety and reduce their frequency. Here are some techniques to help manage panic attacks: 

1. Slow, Deep Breathing: Focusing on your breath is a great way to calm your body and mind. Slower, deeper breaths reduce your heart rate and increase oxygen flow throughout your body. 

2. Progressive Muscle Relaxation: This technique involves systematically tensing and relaxing each muscle group throughout your body. This helps increase awareness of physical sensations and reduce the physical tension associated with panic attacks.

3. Grounding Techniques: This involves focusing on the present moment and your immediate surroundings. Notice five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste.

4. Positive Self-Talk: Recall the beneficial activities you can accomplish and the proficiencies you possess. Cultivating a friendly inner voice is crucial in tempering the severity of panic attacks.

5. Cognitive Restructuring: Transforming adverse musings and worries into more sensible and practical musings can help lessen the power of panic attack. Consider more favorable and advantageous statements to supplant the negative ones.

6. Distraction: Try to distract yourself by focusing on something else. Read a book, listen to music, or find an activity that will take your mind off of the fear and panic. 

7. Healthy Coping Skills: It’s crucial to have a variety of healthy coping skills to turn to in times of stress. Try relaxation techniques such as yoga, meditation, or journaling. 

8. Seek Professional Support: If you’re struggling to manage your panic attacks, it’s necessary to seek professional help. A mental health professional can help you develop strategies to cope with your anxiety and reduce panic attacks.

Seeking professional help when dealing with panic attacks may be necessary to effectively manage symptoms, reduce the frequency of attacks, and cope with the associated emotions and stress. Mental health professionals, such as psychiatrists, psychologists, and social workers, can provide a range of treatments that can help individuals struggling with panic attacks. The most common forms of treatment are cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and exposure therapy.

It is important to remember that you are capable of managing and controlling your anxiety. While navigating panic attacks may be difficult, there are a variety of tools and strategies that can help you do so. By practicing relaxation techniques, striving for healthy coping mechanisms, and seeking professional help when needed, you can learn to manage your anxiety and live a happier and healthier life.

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Compassionate Ways of Responding to Abuse and Trauma Memories of Loved Ones

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Healing from physical, emotional, or sexual abuse is an ongoing journey. For those who go on to develop trauma symptoms as a result of these experiences, relationships become difficult to master. There are a host of concerns with feeling safe in relationships in general with their loved ones due to the fact that the abuse is generally perpetrated by a close relationship or acquaintance.

Whether you are a friend, spouse, or a family member of someone who has endured abuse, tapping into your own discomfort in hearing about the traumatic experiences of your loved one may help you avoid unhelpful responses. Responses should foster safety, intimacy, and trust so that your loved one can begin feeling the support he or she may need in order to heal. If your loved one is having trauma symptoms, your responses need to support the recovery for your loved one rather than hinder it.

The following general tips can help you respond in a compassionate manner when a loved one share’s these difficult memories with you:

  • Allow for him or her to decide how much to share and what to share.
  • Allow him or her to express feelings including sadness, anger, or even shame around the trauma.
  • Do not pressure him or her to share details or aspects of their trauma he or she is not willing or ready to share.
  • Do not invalidate your loved one’s experiences by denying the memories of abuse your loved one is sharing or by asking if he or she is sure the trauma occurred.
  • Be sure that your response does not relay blame to the victim for the abuse. For example, by giving advice of what he or she could have done differently to avoid the abuse from happening.
  • Validate their emotions by making supportive statements that show you have been listening. “I can see the sadness you’re experiencing as your share this with me.”
  • Learn to respect boundaries that he or she is setting when saying yes or no to requests. This helps your loved one feel safe or more in control over their environment.
  • Understand that at times your loved one may need space and at other times closeness.
  • Physical contact may be difficult for some time, if your loved one is having active symptoms.
  • Show a gesture of support, such as holding their hand or giving a hug if he or she is open to it.
  • Lastly, recognize that your loved one may be feeling vulnerable by sharing such memories. Your response can be an opportunity to foster emotional connectedness and closeness.

Taking the brave step of approaching these memories and sharing them with you is probably difficult enough for your loved one. This crucial step in another step toward recovery. Your response can foster love and acceptance, which can lead to feeling supported in a way that can help your loved one heal and recover in a healthy way.

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What Price Are You Paying for Your Secrets

As a topic expert, I submit writing to goodtherapy.org. Here’s a brief summary and link to my most recent article regarding releasing the secret nature of traumatic memories if these memories are causing distress in your day-to-day life.

Everyone has secrets hidden away, often out of embarrassment or shame. Secrets can come at a great cost, however. Liberation and healing can happen in therapy.

http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/what-price-are-you-paying-for-your-secrets-0427175

 

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